That drink in Singapore @ 29 years old - January

What a strange day... had coffee with a really nice girl while still in KL and then moved to Singapore.

In Singapore had a nice drink with this girl I really like and did my usual "1, 2, 3": listen, seduce and close. The strange thing was the seduction took a while. Initially I thought I was just enjoying it, but later I realized I was being played. She wasn't the typical player, but there was definitely something about her pose: the introvert with strong character, the ultimate mystery.

She was still in love with someone and that was clear and that's when I decided I had to seduce her. She had to fall in love with me.

"So, you have totally analysed me by now. What do you think?"
"I think you are genuinely insecure, but you do pretend to be more than who you really are. Sort of like presenting yourself as a victim... but you are not"
"How so?"
"You are totally playing me. I thought I was in control at the beginning of this, but I am definitely not any more"
"And is that my fault?"
"It is indeed. Not mine. Can't blame it on my own insecurities and 'women on pedestal'-type syndrommes"
"So it is my fault"
"Yup and there is only one thing you can do to make it better"
"What?"
"Kiss me"

Which she did. Is she the one? - I wonder. Let's see.